Advice: Boyfriends

Hey Guys - I asked you guys to tell me what you needed advice with and A LOT of you guys reached out to me via email. I'm here to answer & I'm just giving my opinion... take it or leave lol.

So Jessica reached out to me saying that she's been in a relationship for 2 years with the same guy and he has cheated on her multiple times and she's always taking him back. She says he never replies to her messages within a reasonable time period. He's always at work or with his friends. She wants to know what she needs to do to get his attention.

Hey Jessica, sounds like you want him under you 24/7 and girl let's just be honest.... That's never going to happen, ok. He's not always gonna be able to reply to you within 2 seconds and I've had to learn that in my current situation, it's so annoying because you feel like you're being ignored but you're not, he's just busy or occupied. As for the cheating, I'm someone that does not put up with that because I'm a loyal person and I really don't have time for it. You can try to set some ground rules and say that you're not going to be dealing with him the next time it happens... hopefully there is no next time.

If he's always working that's not really a problem but it can be when you're trying to start a relationship or keep one going because they never have time to talk to you and you begin to feel bored and your mind starts to wonder. Try visiting his job and sitting with him on his breaks or take him lunch or whatever. Anything to spend time with him.

I hope this relationship works out for the best. Thank you for tuning in to my blog and thank you for your support.

xoxo,

DeQuanForever

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